It Takes Two Parents To Raise a Successful, Functioning Child
Violent Acres has hit another home run! Although I think her aticle is one sided, it definitly hits the nail on the head. Kids now a days have so many problems, why do their own parents add to it?
The problem is that adults are so consumed with controlling their world that the kids end up paying for it. Moms want control, Dads want control (if they have a back bone). Thus, one or the other ends up making decisions that ultimately will affect the child. For example a mom decides to have another child despite the husband warning her about money. That second or third child might be a wonderful kid, but how does it impact the family? Family is a group, not MOM! Mom’s decision, that she makes on her own, affects the entire family and maybe society as a whole (if our taxes end up paying for this kid, foodstamps, welfare, etc. . . ).
Mom and Dad are both adults. Talk about all the reasons to have a child. Weigh the positive and negatives! See how its going to affect not only your life, but the others in your family. Bottom line, people shouldnt be so god damn controlling, and should work together to do whats best for the entire family. Its called teamwork! You should try it some time! If my family didnt work as a team, there is no way we could have made it through the loss of a child. This is a shout out to all adults! GROW Up and WORK AS A TEAM, its in the best interest of all your children, and after all, they are what really matters.
–Jenny